The Ultimate Answer When Your Partner Says, “I Don’t Mind,” and Actually Means It!

Have you ever found yourself stuck in the most classic, most frustrating episode of a relationship drama? The one titled: “Honey, what do you want to eat?”

Honestly, as a writer for Heyfoodnesia, I go through this all the time. That simple question is often met with that one fateful phrase: “I don’t mind,” or “Up to you.”

Ah, the legendary “up to you.” It sounds so agreeable, but in reality, it’s the beginning of a true test of patience. I suggest satay, and she’s not in the mood. I offer bakso (meatball soup), she says it’s too hot. I propose nasi goreng (fried rice), and the reply is, “I’m bored of it.” It makes you wish you could just split in two so one of you could go find food alone.

But finally, I discovered the ultimate trump card. A name of a place that, when I mention it, makes the phrase “I don’t mind” vanish, replaced by an enthusiastic nod. That place is Kedai Bukit Rhema in Magelang.

This isn’t just a review; this is a personal success story.

The Complete Solution: From Famished to Just Craving a Nibble

The main reason my partner instantly agrees every time I suggest Kedai Bukit Rhema is because this place has it all! There’s no more drama of rejection because the menu is incredibly diverse, satisfying even the most indecisive of palates.

• For a Seriously Hungry Stomach: When we’re starving, our go-to is undeniably the Ayam Bakar Nusantara (Archipelago-style Grilled Chicken). I swear, this isn’t your average grilled chicken. The seasoning is so bold (medok, as we say in Indonesian), with a sweet and savory flavor that penetrates deep into the meat. It’s no wonder this dish was featured on the must-try culinary list for Magelang by the famous food vlogger, Ria SW. That’s a flavor validation you can’t argue with!Sometimes, when we’re craving something authentic and “very Javanese,” our choice falls on Magelangan. It’s a nostalgic dish of rice stir-fried with noodles and classic spices. Simple, yet it keeps you coming back for more.
• For a Sweet Tooth: After the main course, the battle isn’t over. Usually, my partner will switch into “I want something sweet” mode. Don’t worry, Kedai Bukit Rhema has an answer for that too. There’s a soft and creamy cheesecake that melts in your mouth, and a rich, decadent chocolate brownie that’s simply addictive. And the most unexpected treat? They also have Oreo Ice Cream! I mean, who could possibly say no to ice cream?

The view from Kedai Bukit Rhema that calms the heart and mind.

More Than Just a Meal: A View That Heals

Let’s be honest, a key to a successful date is the mood. This is where Kedai Bukit Rhema has an incredible advantage. The view!

Sitting in its outdoor area, we were treated to a sweeping panorama of the green and majestic Menoreh hills. The gentle breeze creates a super comfortable and calming atmosphere. The “gazing at your partner” moments are romantic, but occasionally “gazing at nature” together turns out to be far more soothing.

This tranquil ambiance magically lifts both our spirits. There are no lingering traces of the “I don’t mind” drama, just relaxed conversation while enjoying delicious food and a view that refreshes the soul.

Failed the Batik Experience, Gained a Reason to Return

Actually, on our last visit, our plan wasn’t just to eat. I was really excited to take my partner to try the batik-making experience package they offer. We had already pictured how fun it would be: enjoy a great meal, then get creative making our own batik against such a beautiful backdrop. A productive date, right?

But alas, it turned out the slots for the batik class were already full! There was a hint of disappointment, but on the other hand, it gave us a solid reason to plan our next visit. It’s also proof that Kedai Bukit Rhema is more than just an eatery; it’s a sought-after destination.

The Takeaway from My Personal Experience:

For all of you warriors frequently trapped in the “I don’t mind” labyrinth, try mentioning the name Kedai Bukit Rhema. Based on my experience, this place is the answer to everything.

With its selection of hearty main courses, tempting desserts, and a natural landscape that can instantly improve your mood, this place is the complete package for a fail-proof date.

So, the next time your partner says “up to you,” you know exactly where to take them, don’t you?

Practical Info for You:

• Location: Kedai Bukit Rhema (most people in the area will know it if you mention it’s near the Gereja Ayam/Chicken Church, Borobudur).

• Must-Try Menu: Ayam Bakar Nusantara, Magelangan, Cheesecake.
• Pro-Tip: If you’re interested in the batik-making experience or other activities, it is highly recommended to call ahead or make a reservation, especially on weekends. Don’t let what happened to me happen to you!